Tell your airline (or the tour operator or travel agent who sold the ticket) what help you need, at least 48 hours before you travel; you can often do this when you book. Heathrow says the airline then passes the details to the airport assistance team, and same-day requests cannot be guaranteed. For British Airways, log in to Manage My Booking after you book and choose "Request assistance", at least 48 hours before the flight. If you cannot find it, ask your airline how to request assistance. If you have two airlines, ask BOTH, and say you are travelling alone and changing planes at Heathrow.
If you booked help: airline staff help you off the plane, and a member of the Heathrow assistance team meets you and takes you onward by buggy or wheelchair, to your next terminal on an accessible bus if needed. If you are on your own and nobody has met you, go to an Assistance area or press a help point button. Assistance areas before security: Terminal 2, Level 5 behind check-in zones A and B; Terminal 3, Level 1 above check-in zones A and B; Terminal 4, Check-In Zone B next to Excess Baggage; Terminal 5, Check-In Zone E. Assistance areas after security: Terminal 2, next to the children's play area and the entrance to the B gates; Terminal 3, the extra seating area behind World Duty Free; Terminal 4, near Gate 7; Terminal 5, opposite Gate A4 (A gates), near Gate B35 (B gates), near Gate C53 (C gates). In the arrivals halls: Terminal 2 and Terminal 3, opposite international arrivals; Terminal 4, opposite international arrivals on the way to the Underground; Terminal 5, by the orange lifts. Heathrow helpline: Terminals 2, 3 and 4 +44 (0)20 8757 2700, open 05:00 to 23:00. Terminal 5 +44 (0)20 8283 6415 (Heathrow does not publish opening hours for this number). Outside 05:00 to 23:00, use a help point inside the airport.
Free at Heathrow: sunflower lanyards (a sign that you may need extra help) at the Assistance desks in every terminal, loan of a RADAR key for accessible toilets from an Assistance area, and a free on-demand British Sign Language video service (Convo). The assistance team can also help you through security (everyone goes through the scanner, including wheelchair users; if you cannot walk through, security staff can search you while you stay in your chair; you can ask for a private search). You will usually be asked to board first. If you use your own wheelchair, tell the airline its make, model, size and weight and the battery type. Heathrow calls its assistance service free. When you ask your airline for help, check that there is nothing to pay for it.